Self-Help Materials for Couples
▾ Couple's Questionnairre
This is my intake questionnaire. Feel free to use it to assess areas of difficulty in your relationship.
▾ Rules for Difficult Conversations
Most people are not good at dealing with conflict. Students of such difficulties from couple therapists to those specializing in negotiations between nations have proposed certain recommendations that make for “fair fighting.” This is my compilation of recommendations aimed at helping couples do better when talking about things that are hard to talk about.
▾ Rules for Problem Solving
These build on the Rules for Difficult Conversations and provide a structured format for problem solving when couples face difficult decisions, for instance how to handle a challenging teenager or whether to relocate to a different city.